http://thegayguyslovecoach.com Tue, 11 Nov 2008 20:06:11 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en As I sit here at my desk, I'm taking a moment to glance outside the window. Leaves falling. Red, orange and yellow. A curious gust of wind plays with a plastic bag. Up. Up. Up. I love watching things happen. I'm an observer of life. Are you an observer of life ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/relationship-success-breakthroughs-for-the-single-gay-guy/single-gay-guys-are-you-letting-life-pass-you-by/ Relationship Success is like anything else you’ve done in your life to be successful. There are rules, structure, strategies and actions. And the FIRST thing it takes to play a BIGGER game is understanding these rules. AND I assert that you don’t know the rules, and that is costing you ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/relationship-success-breakthroughs-for-the-single-gay-guy/being-single-is-an-opportunity-to-clarify-your-direction/ Somethings been bugging me lately and I couldn't put my finger on it. Stressing about relationships, money and my coaching practice. I'm sure we all have these stresses, but why suffer? I'll tell you what I believe: I suddenly got an a-ha moment where everything seemed crystal clear. What have I been ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/relationship-success-breakthroughs-for-the-single-gay-guy/omg-you-wont-believe-thisit-changed-my-life/ Don’t you wish you could wave a realistic magic wand and make Mr. Right suddenly appear? You know, open one of those fashion magazines, point your wand and poof, there he is? Well, it would be nice, but it’s not realistic. In fact, would you believe that is how ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/relationship-success-breakthroughs-for-the-single-gay-guy/are-you-just-waiting-for-things-to-happen-or-are-you-playing-a-bigger-game/ Pete and I have this accidental routine we execute every morning. A comforting and strange routine. It begins like this: Before we hit the sac, he set's up the coffee machine for the next morning, with freshly ground dark roast coffee....the evening air is filled with dancing coffee beans. We sleep. ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/relationship-success-breakthroughs-for-the-single-gay-guy/bug-juice-acidophiles/ Join The Gay Guy's Love Coach as he chats with Philanthropist, Pete Irwin about Relationships & Life Changes. [podcast]http://coachgreg.audioacrobat.com/download/4cb092a2-bc07-195b-b129-8d7a828116ec.mp3[/podcast] http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/evolve-your-love-life-in-10-minutes-podcast/pete-irwin/ Join The Gay Guy's Love Coach as he chats with Writer & Spiritual Teacher, Mark David Gerson. For the 1st 20 years of his adult life, Mark David lived as an openly gay man active in the gay liberation movements in Montreal and Toronto. Then something happened....... [podcast]http://coachgreg.audioacrobat.com/download/5007a4c9-9254-0bc9-30ba-2b201c0d42a6.mp3[/podcast] http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/evolve-your-love-life-in-10-minutes-podcast/mark-david-gerson/ My strategy for sidetracking frustration and recapturing connection in heated moments. Being in a relationship is NOT easy! In the big picture, there’s no question: Finn is full of qualities to admire. I feel lucky to be the one admiring them up close! But as in any normal ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/the-evolution-of-adam/episode-5-the-game-of-life/ Changing our surroundings can change our attitudes…or is it that once we change our attitudes, we’re compelled to change our environment to match? Either way, I found a home to better match my heart. I recently wrote about finding joy in getting back together with Finn. Our life together is ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/the-evolution-of-adam/movin%e2%80%99-on-up/ How I learned to invite love back into my life. While I was so busy convincing myself that my love Finn and I should be apart (see previous post), and blaming our relationship for my acting out, very slowly, Finn crept back into my heart. Love is inevitable that way. It ... http://thegayguyslovecoach.com/the-evolution-of-adam/episode-3-returning-to-love/