How The Gay Guy’s Love Coach Works

How will The Gay Guy’s Love Coach help change the way you date and relate? On this page he’ll tell you the kinds of results you will see through this unique approach of letting go of old relationship beliefs and dating habits.

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When you work with The Gay Guy’s Love Coach, some of the results you’ll see……

A renewed sense of being. You will know who you are and what you want - not only in relationships, but in life. You will start to see that a relationship is a co-creative experience – it takes two to create it and grow it. Life doesn’t have to be a struggle.

Realistic relationship requirements. Requirements are non-negotiable needs. Needs that are deal-breakers. You will get clear on your requirements for a long-lasting relationship.

Define your life’s purpose. With this kind of clarity, dating and developing a loving and Long-lasting relationship won’t seem like work, but effortless co-creating.

Develop new and effective ways of approaching dating obstacles. You will be equipped with the important skills that lead you through the dating process. Skills like preparing for a first date. Recognizing early on when the relationship’s not right. Being okay with saying “good-bye.”

Gain the confidence to walk through life being the chooser. You will know who you are and what you want. You’ll choose who you want to date, instead of hoping to be chosen.

Communicate more effectively. Using active listening, you’ll hear the other person’s truth. You’ll also share your truth. With some practice, tips, and support, you’ll communicate with less pain and stress.

A strong foundation for your new life.

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The Gay Guy’s Love Coach’s mission:

Helping gay men play a bigger game in life; helping them acquire the tools to build a happy and successful life. Part of that happy life is the choice of being happily single or truly fulfilled in a loving, meaningful relationship; to let go of old, painful dating and relationship beliefs by replacing them with new ones.

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His Values

Fun! Fun! Fun! Why is this first? In Western cultures, work is seen as being painful drudgery. Anyone who enjoys their work is “odd.” At the same time, we’re told to choose to do something that we love. Ah, the dichotomy! I take the “should” out of work, and life, while adding in “fun.”

Be ready to work. Nothing wrong with a little hard work. Especially when it comes to changing old, and painful, relationship choices. Work means that we create, explore, and discover.

Take Action. Only you can make it happen. Life doesn’t wait for you. First, you create your dreams. Then you make your dreams a reality by taking action. It is only by taking action that anything changes.

The simple truth. Honesty is the most important value. There is nothing you can say that will make me judge you, or turn away from you. That’s because what you say is true for you – and I do not take it personally. Your life becomes very simple when you are honest. The first person to be honest with yourself.

Going the extra mile. People always appreciate it when you go out of your way to do something. It might sound cliché, but random acts of kindness work. Whether you are in a relationship, dating, or building a business, I dare you to do something extra every day and see how far you travel.

Being in the moment. The past has already happened – you can’t change it now. The future hasn’t happened yet – no worries there. Neither the future nor the past exist! We only have NOW. Being able to live in the stillness of the moment will open you up to YOUR truth.

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His Approach

Focus on the results the client wants — not just the process. By asking you what coaching will help you achieve and clarifying what results you want. I am always thinking about how to add more value to our work together.

Letting you know that every call won’t be earth shattering. Progress takes time. It’s like re-modeling your home. You start with one room and over time you will have created a beautiful new home. Here, we are remodeling your life.  So, I will alway encourage you to take your time.

Always make sure that the you are working on something that you are 100% passionate about. It Makes sense to focus on things that get you excited. Start weeding out the parts in your life that are no longer serving you and focus on the things that make you spring out of bed thrilled to start your day.

Will Help you create a life and relationship plan — work that plan. Having a plan where you can refer to will keep you on track when things get a little hectic.

We will address limiting beliefs and fears. These are the things that keep us stuck and sinking in our own personal quick sand. Awareness, Addressing them and letting them go will allow your truth to surface.

Track and measure progress along the way. When working on the design for your life, it’s very important to know where you are at any given time. We will track your progress by implementing evaluations and point systems in our coaching work.

Celebrate incremental progress along the way. At certain milestones we’ll acknowledge the progress you’ve made and ask how you would like to celebrate.

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How a coaching call works

While there is no formula and every meeting is unique , coaching usually has the following features:

Before we begin, the coach will ask there are any wins and challenges from the previous week. We’ll celebrate the wins and explore the challenges.

The coach clarifies your agenda, and where you want to go next.

Discovering the deeper value the client wants. Example: Being single is not a curse, but an opportunity.

The coach asks you powerful questions to inspire a new and fresh outlook or view.

The client takes action between calls and reports back , with the coach holding the client accountable.

The best part: We celebrate the clients victories along the way.

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Now that you can see of some of the results you can expect by working with The Gay Guy’s Love Coach, go to the Services page to learn about the kinds of services and programs he offers.